Most people who start online dating think that [online dating is] it’s so easy [that] , or just/only about the pictures, so they don’t [have to] put much effort into their profile. Average people say “Nobody reads profiles anyway, it’s only about my/the pictures.” Then they get really frustrated when they only seem to attract all the wrong people.
Maybe/Has this happened to you?
[However,] High quality people do read profiles/will read your profile, but only if you make a positive [and powerful] 1st impression.
In fact they read them very carefully and are selective about who they choose to interact with. [spend their time with]
You will have to pass not only their physical/surface tests/qualifiers/filters, but also their quality/tests/filters.
[It all starts with your 1st impression–your main picture, your username, your headline. Then/The next impression is the rest of your photos, then your profile text. All 5 have to be consistent and congruent (the picture has to match the frame) or else people will not respect you/what you’re looking for and waste your time]
High quality people like you, are busy and selective. They don’t want to waste their time looking at unflattering/bad/low quality/poorly lit pictures. And they certainly will not waste their time learning more about profile that have usernames that are crude, sexually charged/expicit, or in any way negative. For example, “Lonelygirl”, “HeartbrokenSoul”, “ShowMeTheMoneyHoney””HotandWild”, “Mr6PackAbs”,
and reading profiles of people who are not forthcoming with who they are
Follow these tips to make/give yourself the best 1st impression and you’ll really stand out from the crowd!
1. Your main picture
[Do people judge books by their cover?]
Do you judge a book by it’s cover? Of course you do! [In fact] We all do! It’s human nature, [so we all do this.] we can’t help it so use this [tip/knowledge] to your advantage.
High quality people like you, are busy and selective. They don’t want to waste their time looking at unflattering/bad/low quality/poorly lit pictures.
and reading profiles of people who are not forthcoming with who they are
with people who look neg
, if you obviously put little effort into posting a high-quality, positive photo as your cover
However/But that initial judgement is only your very 1st impression (that gut feeling) it’s usually [it’s] either disgust (“Ugh/NO/No-Way-Jose/Next/Swipe Left”) or curiosity (Let me learn more [about this person] Who is this [person]? Hello Mr/Miss potential love of my life!).
High quality people are looking for someone who knows the importance/how to make an honest and appealing/classy 1st impression.
[smart, classy, & thorough/follows through/finishes what they start, keeps their commitments, does things the right way, not half-hearted. doing things the right way, even if it’s scary/unfamiliar/unknown]
This is achieved by being/demonstrating class[y] meaning:
NO unflattering pictures, No decieving pictures (pictures that are not recent, consistent with how you currently look.)
obviously an older version of you (15 lbs ago, 2 or more [clothes/dress] sizes ago.
[How] Would you like to invest time into getting to know someone then when you meet in person they obviously misrepresnted (lied) about their apprearance/age/height/weight?
– attractive? cute? tease? genuine? sincere? (BTW–You can sign up for our Free mobile-friendly course to learn how to update your pictures to get started/make the right 1st impression)
2. Your username
– neutral or can hurt you
3. Your [profile] headline
– boring vs interesting test
4) Your other/additional pictures
– if your pictures suggest you are a different type of person than how/the one you described yourself [with your words] then kings & queens will pass and the low-quality people will harass you
5) Your profile
– what you say, how you say it (tone – never say anything negative), wit, sarcasm, anger, depressed, hopeless, confident, victim, martyr)
Are you sure your profile is making the best/right 1st impression for you/on your behalf?
These/Here are the 5 things every online dating profile needs to get right or else Kings & Queens will pass/click “Next”:
1) Your main picture – attractive? cute? tease? genuine? sincere? (BTW–You can sign up for our Free mobile-friendly course to learn how to update your pictures to get started/make the right 1st impression)
2) Your username – neutral or can hurt you
3) Your [profile] headline – boring vs interesting test
4) Your pictures – if your pictures suggest you are a different type of person than how/the one you described yourself [with your words] then kings & queens will pass and the low-quality people will harass you
5) Your profile – what you say, how you say it (tone – never say anything negative), wit, sarcasm, anger, depressed, hopeless, confident, victim, martyr)
Get all but/just 1 of these wrong and you don’t stand a chance/get more than 2.3 seconds before a King or Queen swipes left/clicks “next”. (Also encourages/empowers low-quality guys/men to email you repeatedly/constantly/looking for for casual sex)
Get just 1 of these wrong and
Make a mistake with just 1 and
Mess up just 1 of these [elements] and
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